We all get frustrated when things don't go the way we expect. Pre-emptively transform expectations into explicit agreements to save a world of pain.
To avoid confusion and dissatisfaction, design solutions around the desired outcome.
Middle ground is the place where nothing happens, nobody wins, and noone is happy.
Unless you are absolutely certain that you have all the context, keep quiet and listen carefully.
Regret, distrust, and failure in relationships and projects stem from miscommunication and misaligned expectations.